Sermon Title:  Hungering for Healing

Sermon Text:  Luke 4:31-37

Sermon Date:  November 11, 2007

 

Chris’ Story continues:

 

Questions of theological correctness, doctrinal purity, elegant exegesis … all are at best pretenders or step children to the real questions of our own preferences, comfort zones and personal power.

 

The debate inside the small church over whether or not to hire Chris, a young but very talented seminary grad and hometown favorite, had degenerated from anticipation and excitement and to the same kind of tired arguments every struggling church faces:

 

            “I heard what he said.  He made it sound all fancy, but he’s talking about bringing in outsiders …and he wants us to do it.”

 

            “I don’t know about you all, but I’m already doing plenty around here.  Besides, that’s his job.”

 

            “Same goes for me, too.  Who has time to meet new people?”

 

            “Come on Frodo.  Did you see all those new people this morning who came to hear him?  This could be really exciting!” 

 

“But they’re … not like … us.  What in the world would we do with all of them?”

 

            “Put ‘em all on committees!”

 

            “But they have to take those rings out of their lips and eyes and God knows where else.”

 

            “And sitting in the back, wasn’t that Endora’s sister?  The one with A-I-D-S?”

 

            “Yup, in all her glory with her brood of waifs and strays.”

 

            “I heard she got it from a needle.  Addicted to something awful. That’s what I heard.”

 

            “You know, he’s probably going to want to change things up to keep all them happy.”

 

            “Who’s church is it anyway, ours, or theirs?”

 

            “This is our church!”

 

            “I don’t know about you, but as far as I’m concerned, he can do whatever he wants, but I was here before he was born, and I’ll be here when he leaves.  This is my church!”

 

And so it went on.  The moderator, new to church governance because no one else would take the job, knew where this was heading and he didn’t know whether to laugh or cry.

 

Meanwhile, Clark Kent, long known as a voice of reason, called for the question and the debaters reluctantly yielded the floor. 

 

The vote was in favor of calling Chris, but it was hardly a mandate.  Four “ayes” over the required minimum.  The moderator went out to tell Chris about the vote but Chris was already gone.

 

In fact, Chris, wise beyond his years, spared both himself and the old church more than a few awkward moments by jumping in the car and heading out of town.  Bicknell was his destination.  He had some friends there and he’d spoken at the church a few times.  They already had a great pastor and didn’t need another, but they really liked Chris and they took him seriously.  He knew he’d be welcome, but more importantly, he felt he had some loose ends to tie up there.

 

The church was reeling from the recent suicide of a young woman, a Meth addict.  The incident had opened the proverbial can of worms … Pandora’s Box.  On his last visit many parishioners and townspeople had come to him privately to talk about their own personal struggles and demons.  Issues of money and debt, sex and fidelity, teen preganancies, drug use, issues of anger and trust and power.  The Spirit of God was moving among these people, stirring up the ugly and dead things that paralyze and eat away at the Image of the Most High.

 

Chris was beginning to understand his gifts and his calling.

 

MESSAGE

 

            I’ve always thought I have an addictive personality.  Alcoholism has been in our family.  I have difficulty staying away from chocolate.  I have thought I was addicted to one or two computer games in my lifetime.  But then I found this quiz online:  do you have an addictive personality?  Come to find out that I’m only 36% addictive.  (go to:  http://www.blogthings.com/doyouhaveanaddictivepersonalityquiz/ to find out if you have one.)

 

            I’m a little discouraged about this.  Now I have to figure out what I can blame my problems on.  I’m kidding….sort of.

            You might have figured out that I am losing weight.  I’ve lost 46 pounds since April when I started keeping track on a computer program that keeps track of what I eat and weigh.  When people ask how I’m doing it, I say, “the old fashioned way.  Counting calories.”  I have discovered that all of these fad diets I’ve tried over the years have been FOR ME ways to avoid eating better, watching portion sizes and exercising.  When my sister in Wisconsin lost a significant amount of weight, I became motivated to join her.  Now my other sister and niece have joined Weight Watchers.

            I’ve lost weight before only to do okay for a while and then allow it to creep back.  You know it never comes back all at once.  I’ve never woke up one morning and said, “I want to gain all of this weight back so I’m officially eating everything I can find.”  No, it doesn’t work that way.  You have an unhealthy eating day promising yourself that tomorrow you will be “better.”  But tomorrow never comes and before you know it, your clothes don’t fit anymore and you are once again miserable.  

            No one ever intends to be addicted to anything.  Kids don’t aspire to be drug addicts.  Teenagers taking their first drink don’t hope that someday they will spend Saturday nights at AA meetings.  No teenage girl decides to become anorexic or bulimic. No one looks at pornography and believes they will become addicted.  That is one of the most massive addictions right now.  Online pornography is ruining lives and marriages.  It is even a problem among ministers, I’m sorry to say.  I cannot begin to tell you how many emails I have received offering me a chance to look at young women who are scantily clad OR to enhance body parts I do not possess. 

            Nonetheless…..when we look at the scripture today, let’s think about the demons facing us today.

 

31-32He went down to Capernaum, a village in Galilee. He was teaching the people on the Sabbath. They were surprised and impressed—his teaching was so forthright, so confident, so authoritative, not the quibbling and quoting they were used to. 33-34In the meeting place that day there was a man demonically disturbed. He screamed, "Ho! What business do you have here with us, Jesus? Nazarene! I know what you're up to. You're the Holy One of God and you've come to destroy us!"  35Jesus shut him up: "Quiet! Get out of him!" The demonic spirit threw the man down in front of them all and left. The demon didn't hurt him.  36-37That set everyone back on their heels, whispering and wondering, "What's going on here? Someone whose words make things happen? Someone who orders demonic spirits to get out and they go?" Jesus was the talk of the town. 

 

               Don’t you wish it were that simple!  “Hey Jesus, I have a demon inside of me.  Come, I dare you…make it come out!”

               Some might say it is.  Some preachers stand before their congregations and say that all you have to do to get rid of the demon in you is to claim Jesus as Lord and everything will be okay.  And you know, once in a while it happens that way.  Someone addicted to drugs makes a public confession of faith claiming Jesus as Lord and Savior and then never again did he want to smoke crack cocaine.  Someone who beats his wife regularly makes a confession and says that never again did his temper get out of control.  Someone was addicted to sex and makes the confession, never to be tempted again.  And I say, “Hallelujah!”  Unfortunately that isn’t the norm.  Most of us make the confession and claim Jesus and life still goes on.  We are still tempted.  We still struggle.  Does that mean our confessions were real and true?  Does that mean God loves them more than us?  What does it mean?

               It seems that it means that sometimes our addictions can be easily given up and sometimes they can’t.  Sometimes we have to struggle through them and deal with these demons for many years to come.  And to be honest, that struggle makes us more compassionate to the ones who also struggle.

               One of the things I have been very aware of in this weight loss is that it would be easy for me to look at others and wonder why they just can’t get with the program.  But I know that plenty of people have looked at me and wondered why I didn’t.  You know the Indian proverb “don’t judge someone until you have walked a mile in their shoes.”  Don’t make snap judgments about people either.  Every day I am aware that it doesn’t take much to fall back into old habits.  Every day I am very thankful that I have been able to remain motivated…most of the time…and continue to lose weight. 

               Perhaps you are struggling with an addiction or at the very least a habit you’d like to rid yourself of.

               Perhaps you live with someone who struggles.

               Perhaps your child or grandchild or friend is struggling with a demon.

 

               What do you do about it?

 

  1. You can make a decision that you need help.  That is really a tough one.  Just admitting that you need help is a first step.  Allison is struggling with depression.  She wants a better life and a better job.  She wants to be happy.  However so far she hasn’t made any changes. No decisions about changing her life.  She just wants things to get better NOW.  Suggest getting some exercise that would lift her spirit and the eyes roll.  Suggest looking for a new job that is rewarding and she asks, “What?” 

a.      Of course it is certain that there is clinical depression but there is also situational depression, i.e. situations that depress us.  Making a decision to get help is often as important as getting the help.  The first step really is admitting that you can’t do it alone.

  1. You can pray and ask Jesus for help.
  2. You can seek help from other resources.  In case you are ready to say, I just need God’s help, let me remind you that God empowers others to help us.  Remember last week I spoke of God speaking through others to reach us.  God equips others to be able to help us.  Many of them have already faced the demons you are facing and can offer help.  Don’t refuse help because you think you can do it on your own.  If you haven’t already beaten the demon by yourself, perhaps you can’t do it alone and you need the help God has offered.
  3. You can grab God’s hand and ask someone to help you.  To help hold you accountable – like my sisters and I are doing for each other.  No more patting each other’s hand and saying, “now, now” when a pound comes back.  Tough love is needed to stay focused on the goal ahead.
  4. If you are watching someone go through this, you can offer to help.  Offer to hold them accountable or find someone who will help.  Offer tough love.  Don’t be mean or judgemental to the person; just offer to walk beside them and help them hold themselves accountable.

 

               We all have demons.  Every single one of us have dealt with or are dealing with a demon.  You don’t need to feel as if you are the only one dealing with it.  You needn’t be ashamed.  You need not hide from the rest of the world.  You do need to read the gospels and look at the number of times that people with demons come to Jesus to seek healing.  If you are hungry to be healed of an addiction, talk to Jesus and seek help.  If you are hungry to be healed of a tendency to gossip or be short tempered, ask God and a friend to help.  If you are hungry to be healed of a broken heart or angry spirit, let God work in your life.  Perhaps the pain you are feeling is really the hunger to be healed.  And Jesus is in the healing business, waiting to heal you.

 

               Listen to the words of our closing hymn:

 

 

Close with “Heal Me, Hands of Jesus”   #636

 

Heal me, hands of Jesus, and search out all my pain;

Restore my hope, remove my fear, and bring me peace again.

 

Cleanse me, blood of Jesus, take bitterness away;

Let me forgive as one forgiven and bring me peace today.

 

Know me, mind of Jesus, and show me all my sin;

Dispel the memories of guilt, and bring me peace within.

 

Fill me, joy of Jesus, anxiety shall cease

And heaven’s serenity be mine, for Jesus brings me peace.